Well...my story isn't all roses. I got
Postpartum psychosis after my third was born (had no idea I was bipolar then) My husband got up with her and practically took care of her full time. He lost his job because I needed him at home so we moved into my in laws for a few months. I don't think I was "me" till she was a year and a half. We are bonded now but it look a while. Hope your experience is much better than mine.