I'm not particularly interested in sex but I do suffer from vaginismus and sex can be painful. It does put you off.

I faked it with the guy I was recently seeing and if it makes him happy then I am happy. I need to learn to please myself as well as others. I tend to do that on my own and I wonder if I could ever orgasm without masturbation or direct clitoral stimulation from another person. I never have in the past although for the first time I really did enjoy penetrative sex with this recent guy when I was on top of him. I don't think I ever really have in the past. The fear of pain has put me off.

I think a lot of women are not really interested in sex. But a lot are. You can't generalise. Everyone is different.