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Originally Posted by ennui.
i find this really invalidating and belittling of op's problems. i'm in the same situation as op but with even less going for me. it's never as simple as "just stop feeling bad".
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Some get into a pattern of feeling bad about oneself. It is usually do to ones growing up experiences. In this case, feeling bad about one self is habit that is an old friend to this poster, that is hard to say goodbye to. There is much survival investment placed in this. In this case, "just stop feeling bad about yourself" can be a positive step in ones healing.