my roommate just texted me something that made me mad but also really anxious and i started venting to my bf about it. i admit that i was angry and i almost started crying cause i was so frustrated, idk why. at first my bf tried to comfort me and tell me don't worry about it. but i was like "but i can't, i know that she's mad at me." and i was saying stuff like is this my fault, and saying that i think i ****ed up. my bf kept saying i didn't. but i wouldn't believe him. eventually he got frustrated and was like "okay then sit there like a baby and ***** about it" and just stuff like, if you don't wanna take my advice then **** you. and said that i should be more grateful cause he made me some cereal this morning and i've barely touched it cause i've been *****ing about my roommates. i told him i'm sorry for not taking his advice before, that i was just acting hysterical and anxious and he was like "well you weren't taking it before." and so i just kind of sat there for a few minutes feeling ****** and kind of just thinking and he was like "stop pouting and eat your cereal" idk ik this is my fault and now i feel horrible. and now were sitting playing video games and i'm trying to just pretend that i'm okay but i feel like i really upset him. i told him that sometimes i don't like when he yells at me to make me get over stuff but i said that i understand how it might annoy him. he's done this before when i vented about stuff and didn't take his advice. idk but i wanna change and start being able to get over things, if anyone has advice, that would be helpful.