Boraz. I've always believed that age is just a number, and in some cases it's true. I'm 69, but i have a history of seeing men much younger than me. The feeling was that men around my age were boring, lacked energy, and other such nonsense, including not allowing me to be myself.
Until i met this one. He's 76. And other than the problems you might have read about here (mostly from his cranky mother), he's everything i found I needed in a man and then some. Yes, though he gets around, he does have health issues, serious ones too, but mentally he's at my speed and I'm enjoying him, and I'm not referring sexually. Our conversation is delightful, he acts like a gentleman because he is, and not a "I gotta prove I'm a man" mentality I've been accustomed to because I felt only men younger than me can give what I wanted.
My point? Get someone your age. Yes, it's flattering to have a fine young thing "sweating" you. But how better it is to have someone loving you, respecting you, and respect other people.
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