Am i a failure if i never get married or have kids? I certainly feel like one. I am 37, never been proposed toand never been pregnant. The last man i fell for I discovered to be a lying deceitful sociopath who got off on torturing me emotionally and by making empty promises. That person did those things but said he loved me so now i have a twisted sense of what love is. I feel the person i once was is dead because of him. So with that said I don't see how I could allow another romantic relationship. As for kids... I have uterine fibroids so pregnancy willbe difficult.

People are so judgemental of a single woman my age with my own house car and job and i hear stuff like she must be gay, she must have an attitude, she must be someone's mistress, etc. some of this is very hurtful to me so i must be a failure right?