Well, if he has strong sociopathic tendencies then odds are he's never going to get an award for his parenting skills. I understand why you have those expectations, I think most people would in your situation! However, those expectations have the potential of being downright unrealistic depending on just how far he is on the ASPD/psychopathy spectrum.

If you could give more detail about what sociopathic traits he has, that would be great. It's hard for me to have much of an opinion at all when I'm working with such limited information.