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Originally Posted by Chummy2
Why is this attachment so big?
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That I don't know
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Originally Posted by Chummy2
Have you had this ever before?
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Many times and almost as far back as I can remember, but never this bad.
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Originally Posted by Chummy2
What do you want from her? Probably there's a need. And she can't fulfill that.
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I think I have a bad case of maternal transference and you're right, she can't fulfill the need I have/had for a parent figure who understands me, listens to me and actually sees me as a person that has feelings. I feel so crap for feeling this way as a grown adult and I just want these maternal transferences to stop.
Also, my life is pretty empty. I have my family but I've never felt like they have understood me. I don't have any friends and never have had; not real friends at least. I don't think I have ever even known how to make friends. I'm also single and have been my whole life. I know none of these things are or should be problematic and get in the way of me leading a happy, independent life on my own but for some reason, I'm not happy in the least.