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Old Aug 29, 2016, 10:35 AM
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Originally Posted by leomama View Post
Thank you. I had always sensed that but could never explain it. He even tells me he's hardened his heart against me because he had to and he refuses to be warm to me. Whenever I talk to him on the phone he's in a public place and he's talking to people. He offended our daughter by always bringing his girlfriend around and I had to tell him that. He would never see her without her because his girlfriend was jealous of her. Now he thinks I'm permitting our daughter to see an older guy. I'm thinking, dude if you had done your job she wouldn't be seeing an older guy but of course it's my fault as is her substance abuse. Never mind he was a drug dealer. And her mood disorder? Well since he has untreated bipolar and he self medicates, he verbally attacked me for taking her to a p doc! I ended up calling the police last month because of that and almost filed a restraining order.

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Of course it's all your fault. To a psychopath or sociopath, nothing is EVER their fault.

It's their histrionic ex who just doesn't understand them and accuses them of "abuse", the friend who "betrayed" their trust, their parents who ruined their lives before it even began, the people who "never told them the truth when it could have made a difference", and so on. I could list off this **** all day.
Thanks for this!
leomama