Why dont you see someone else? The "thing" is not with her in particular - you should be able to work it out with someone else. I know youve been thru t1, t2, t3, but this is not baseball; its not three strikes youre out. What is stopping you from seeing someone else?

Eta - i just read your post in the attachment thread. I guess that kinda answers it. Sounds like you dont want to blame your parents, but it also sounds like they werent attuned to you? Like youre just drifting now.