I've been wondering about this for a long time. Can your own emotional stability stabilize an emotionally unstable person or is it a lost cause? What do you think about the position of emotional leadership in a personality disordered relationship? Is it a case of the blind leading the blind, or is it like sponsorship where any about of sober time counts? Has anybody else thought about these things? Tried to have a relationship with an emotionally "normal" person? (Whatever that is). Been able to relate to an "emotionally normal " or "non"? Is it worth it? Would love to know if anyone else thinks about these things or if this even makes sense to another person.

Also when did you start listening to and trusting your own emotions? I don't know about you but years of being told I was overreacting , was hypersensitive, taking things personally really messes with a person. My guess that every single time someone criticized me in that vein they were trying to manipulate me. I've been so through the ringer that sometimes I can't tell the difference anymore.

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