Yes, I have had limited contact with my extended family for decades. Definitely while my kids were growing up. It was after my children went off to college and I was an empty-nester that I became somewhat closer (although, not very) to my sisters. I did feel a very special connection with my great-niece, and I stepped up to give her some guidance and love when she was 17-18. Sadly, by that time in her rough life she was already badly damaged. Thank God, though, that she knows I love her, no matter what.
Rose, you're awesome! Thank you.