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Originally Posted by xenos
I don't know about you, but my most persistent problem, is forming a genuine bond and intimacy with the significant other. It seems to me very difficult to truly love someone and elicit the necessary emotions to maintain a healthy relationship. Sometimes I vacillate between true emotional neediness from the opposite sex, and others I find myself unable to sustain this emotional bond that I rationalize a lot about why I want to be with this person or that.
I guess its difficult for me to love another person, but I really wish I will be successful someday in being genuinely in love with someone.
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I relate a LOT to what you've described. Even though I've been in several long-term relationships, over the years, I have struggled throughout each of them emotionally.
I continue to push myself harder and harder to get over my issues and allow myself to open up completely. Trusting another person absolutely seems to be something that I am unable to do in life. Yet, I am also unwilling to live my entire life alone.
((((((hugs)))))) sent your way.
