I think I need to do this soon.. he did the massaging my shoulders thing again in front of my subordinates and this time, I really shrugges it off and told him to stop it. Then I learned from a friend who's a co manager of his that he keeps telling her how much he admires me and my independence, how strong I am and he's surprised that a girl like me still exists. I feel he's getting deeper and deeper and I don't want him to get to a point that he might not be able to stop
himself, and I don't want to totally destroy our professional relationship as well. best for me to just look for another job.