It seems that nearly all of us here, feel like a failure at life (at living) (because of severe depression and anxiety etc.. ) and yet we are still here
I'm sure most of us have had mean people in our lives who agreed with this (assumption)
I won't post what popped into my head re the mother

(IRL)
I'm not sure I agree that this is a "failure"
But what do I know, I'm just a fuzzy bear