I have an opinion that i dont think was shared on this post yet. Just my personal opinion.

I was the cheater in my relationship. It was because i was unmedicated and manic.

Eventually my husband found out and gave me an ultimatum. Get treatment and stay with him and the kids, or i leave.

Is she mentally ill? They way she described her cheating sounded just like me. Did it for fun. Not for love or a relationship. Just to prove i can get who and what i want.

2 years later my marriage is amazing. But right when my h found out, he sent very threatening messages to the guys. I dont blame him. And i know he had thoughts like you do now.

Also, if you tell the other spouses, in some states there is alienation of affection, meaning cheating is illegal and could result in a civil case and a huge amount of money lost.

Not sure where you live tho.

Good luck on what you choose. And your childs best interest should always be number 1.

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