I think Im going to delete the picture as my daughter can post her own picture and I am not at all comfortable with going into details here. Thank you for the feedback. It gave me the information I needed. I am quite sure if I explained to my daughter what was going on she would sure share my sentiment and that's all that counts here. That same parish member thought I could coparent with my sociopathic ex and when I told her the reality of the situation she asked me if I was getting the help I needed not if my ex had gotten diagnosed or treated yet. I have no patience for blaming the victim. This subject would probably be better covered in the survivors of abuse forum as religious abuse is part of my story. Thank you for your time.