Thank you. I'm just worried because I seem to be man repellent, though I've been told I have a pretty face. Men have never complimented me or paid me attention/shown interest, so I can only assume the worst. My biggest fear is that even when I am a decent weight I'll have loose skin and thus still look like a grotesque monster. I would never be able to afford any kind of correctional surgeries, so whatever I get, I'm stuck with it... for life.

I guess I could ask him to stop bringing it up, but... not really a way to do that without making myself feel like a *****. Like I said, he doesn't mean it the way my mind takes it to mean. He seems to like talking about it in a sort of bragging manner like he's proud. It's my mind that twists it into an insult. I can sort of just grin and bear it. He doesn't visit really often anyway.