Thanks, that 'friend' is gone from immediate life, but unfortunately she still circles around the periphery. We have mutual friends, and there have been times I have not gone to a party or event, because she would be there. We were friends throughout college and we had a lot of great times together. I'm more passive, and over the years she felt she had some ownership of me. I was like a doll, she would pick me up, dress me up, do my makeup and then we would go to a party, etc. But she would throw you away when she was done with you. When I first learned I was pregnant, she was definitely the friend I saw most often and my closest. Not having her support, and some of her comments, really kind of put me over the edge.