<font color="#000088">A lot of Borderlines tend to have abandonment issues, so they tend to form close relationships, then sabotage the relationship on purpose, so they don't feel like they were the one that got abandoned by the other. It's really unfortunate for the other person in the relationship, because their the one that ends up getting hurt, and doesn't really understand why,or what happened!
They also are labeled so often by others, that it causes much anger inside, and they tend to act out a lot, much of this acting out is attention seeking behavior,and it gets on a lot of people's nerves! But you've got to really understand a Borderline in order to appreciate what they are really going through inside! And there are not too many people that really understand Borderlines, that's why they are judged so much and not liked very much!
You've kindof got to be labeled a Borderline and actually walk in thier shoes for awhile to understand the way they really get treated. It's pretty bad!
Not being a Borderline, but being able to see how they are treated, sheds a whole new light on understanding them better!</font>