@The O.P, sorry to hear that. Has this person said anything like that before? How did they say that to you, in a joking way, or in a critical judgemental way? It's not what you say but how you say things that can make a difference in what something means.
Also, did you tell this person that hurt your feelings? If not, then maybe they had no idea that they did and they didn't mean to. There is only one way to find out, and that's to talk to them about things if you haven't already. Maybe they were just joking. If they weren't, well, then just know this, you don't need judgemental and critical people in your life.
It's better to be alone than with people who only end up making you feel worse about yourself.
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