My ex who is ftm and not transitioning and is not taking any hormones has contacted me after two months of me having no contact. Says he missed me and and it hurt him more then he thought when Inleft. I fell in love with him... But the more I wanted to spend time ( like 3 times a week) the more he pulled away and treated me as clingy. The last thing I am is clingy. I ended it in June and he contacted me three weeks ago on my bday and stayed over. We have been chilling and enjoying each other without any set dates. He told me last weekend I was his person and that he knows Im into him and he also knows he cant call me his gf. His BFF told me not to wait around that he is talking to straight women. That killed me as I identify as a lesbian. Coukd me being gay be the turn off? Not sure what to do... His ego is very big. Hiw can we share all this intimacy but him not want anything. Im pretty upset. There is an age gap, he is 29 and im 36.... Advice on what path to take would be great... I know he cares a lot about me... But this tells me otherwise