I agree with being habilitated about interpersonal relationships as care givers should have done in order to improve both my own self worth and life and my other relationships. That is exactly how I see it working for me. Although I am not sure I know exactly what habilitated means!!

However, I do it but I do question it and I do want to enjoy it, just as a child should enjoy the feelings it has for its care givers. Unfortunately not a lot of us were lucky enough to feel those good feelings.