To be honest, I am feeling really frustrated with my mother because she's has no interest in teaching me how to cook and embroidery which as a mother she should have taught me when I was growing up. I think she's lazy and neglectful to our emotional needs, I feel as if she gave a **** about teaching me how to do things I wouldn't have been dependent on her. I am angry because she enabled me to become codependent in the first place and I think if she has no interest in helping me improve then I don't need her. I will find someone else who wants me to improve. Not someone who just wants someone to feel useful and needed which I think is why she won't let me go. She needs someone to make her feel useful and worthy and she's stopping me from growing as a person. I am tried and I want her to leave me alone.