All I can say is I jumped in with both feet really. I did not want to leave my Old T and she did not want to leave Mr wither I don't think and I had the same worries and doubts as you but I just kept interviewing them until I found the right one.

I hear that this is not an option for you but leaving if it is not right will still be an option, so what do you have to lose. You can give it a go and if it isn't right you can leave and still be in the same place you are now.

It is taking time and patience and effort but we are building a relationship between us. I was lucky with Old T that it didn't take a lot of building really, it just seemed to happen but I do have hope, after today's session at least.

I hope you can decide yo do what feels right for you.