Hi Guiltier, good luck for you, this will be a journey for both of you but in both cases it is a journey toward a good goal for the betterment of each of you. Keep working at it and I hope you are able to support each other through this. We are here to support you as well.

I am a member of the LGBT community and although I don't have any personal experience with the "T" in that I would be happy to lend my support to you, if you want to post here or PM me.

Good luck and I want to really say "hooray!" for both of you.