I noticed that these are your first posts on PC. Just wanted to say Welcome.

Certainly sounds like this is going to be a difficult relationship to recover from. From what you write about her reasons, there's not much more than vagueness, at least to me her reasons seem vague. Maybe it's interrelated to her refusal to have disagreements because disagreements mean that the relationship isn't healthy? I'm just thinking outloud with that question.

Hopefully another member has more insight.

Sending you moral support.

"Investigate your hidden assumptions."-Cornel West