Welcome ALC1211! I'm sorry you are going through such pain right now. I think your ex should give you a better explanation than what she did. Communication is key in any relationship. I know you have had to move very far away but I was wondering if suggesting therapy to her would help? If you love her and want her back then fight for her. Maybe you two could do therapy together? Although you living so far away now will make it very difficult. I wish you the very best of luck.