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Old Sep 02, 2016, 11:07 AM
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Greeneyes, I see a ton of red flags in your replies.

He was let go for being condescending to coworkers.

He spends his evenings going out while you work to support the two of you and tend to the messes his cat makes.

He sat around waiting for recruiters to call him.

You basically had to write his cover letter.

I'm going to be very blunt. He is a little boy in a 36 year old man's body. My husband was the same way. Based on my experience with my husband and what I've heard from others unless something happens to force him to grow up he is going to stay this way the rest of his life.

Please give serious thought to marrying this person. You say you would like to buy a house and have children with him. Do you want to be the only responsible adult living in the house?
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