If you go with the idea that a person is many things and not defined by one action or role...whether it be parent, friend, artist whatever the multiple possibility are. Then it goes to reason that it is annoying at best in a social network to only be appreciated by one thing when you may share many things. It is also a problem when others do not listen or read, jump to conclusions without getting the facts or limit the facts to a bias. I believe there is a type of therapy to address that. CBT anyone? Life is complex enough without uninformed criticism, and filtered facts. You know PC is theoretically a place to be supported & encouraged & not a place to be told go and be well... We can all get that kind of trash else where.