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Originally Posted by Always Hurting
Welcome ALC1211! I'm sorry you are going through such pain right now. I think your ex should give you a better explanation than what she did. Communication is key in any relationship. I know you have had to move very far away but I was wondering if suggesting therapy to her would help? If you love her and want her back then fight for her. Maybe you two could do therapy together? Although you living so far away now will make it very difficult. I wish you the very best of luck.  |
Thank you for your input...
Ive ask her for a better explanation, and she just maintains that she felt she had changed, didn't like the person she had become, and didn't feel she couldn't make me happy, Which I was happy, and everything seemed perfectly fine, like I said in my original post, up until before she dropped the bomb on me, that's why I was so surprised...shocked, devastated, she told me on a daily basis, many times a day how much she loved me, missed me, wanted to be home with me while she was at work in texts.. when she was home things were great...we didn't fight...we laughed had fun...nothing that would have ever led me to believe her asking me to leave was coming...
Ive tried to talk to her several times in the emails we written back and forth and try to get her to tell me why she wouldn't fight for me and the relationship and she wont discuss it... so getting her to discuss therapy will be a no, and me being 900 miles a way is going to put a a red flag for her as well, I know her, shes going to say, How do expect us to do that?? because like I said, she just keeps saying, I loved you ... a piece always will...Im moving forward...But she want to be friends but cant right now because the grief and hurt are still to much..I do love her, more than anything....Im doing all I can to fight for her... That I know to do... but she just shuts me out...she she wont fight..too....
