Thanks for your response..

Quite honestly, I wouldn't say the relationship was unhealthy, we really didn't have any problems, We laughed had fun...got along well, she told me on a daily basis many times a day, how much she loved me and missed me and wanted to be home with me in texts, while she was at work...We snuggled and cuddled when she was at home... were affectionate...we didn't fight...but if we did have something that needed to be talked about she was sure to shut down and not want to talk about it... she did have a problem with not knowing how to communicate.. she was from a divorced family her parents divorced when she was 12 it was very hard on her... and she had admitted at one point she never learned good communication skills from example of her parents relationship...I had told her don't let their marriage be an example for our relationship...at that time she had said she wouldn't, but I guess she didn't take it to heart... because i guess it didn't stick...So to her any time you have a discussion about anything.. its leading to a fight or disagreement....her words, I don't like confrontation...even if it wasn't a fight... it was just a talk about something. I just really have no idea how to deal with this and how to even deal with her as far as fighting for the relationship, because that's why she wouldn't discuss it or fight for it on her end, because to her that is confrontation.. it was easier in her eyes i guess to walk away.