I do, just a carry over from childhood, I guess. Where "children should be seen and not heard"
The Therapist and client relationship is something I struggle with. Also I don’t want to get to a place where I depend on them to rescue me if I go into crisis. My opinion is that they care as much as you pay them to care, if you think not, fall behind on your payments or not be able to pay the up front fee.
It’s a lot of be seen and not heard. They seem more concerned on how it’s easier to discuss surface issues than to dig deep to the core issues. If you are dealing with trauma issues the surface issues are just a small part of the puzzle.