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Originally Posted by Waterbear
My T calls it stuckness and we want to get to the bottom of it too. It may make up some of the work coming up so I will let you know how I get on, by PM maybe. I would be interested to hear how you get on too.
I use a stuffed toy but mainly for the floating away, disassociation I think. It brings me back to the room. My problem with the stuckness is if I push myself to unstick then I float away. I find it so much easier when T and I are sat really close together because I can't reach her when we are further apart. When we are close the physical barrier of space does not add to the stuckness if that makes sense.
She holds my hand sometimes too and I think that helps but as I say we just touched on it as a point to work on yesterday.
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Yes, I have trouble staying present too if I try to push through the stuckness/blocked feeling. I was kind of hoping hugging a cushion/stuffed toy might provide me some comfort since my T wont hug me. I don't think my T would hold my hand based on what I know about her and her boundaries.
Let me know how you go with this though, I'd be interested to hear about it! Good luck