Today one of my coworkers made a very insensitive remark out of nowhere that I can't believe someone would make without meaning to be offensive. I assumed she didn't mean to be offensive so I didn't make anything of it. But then just a few minutes later I made a comment that was meant to be totally innocent and she called me out right there in front of everyone. I would share the specific comments made but unfortunately this website is stupid and doesn't allow users to delete posts and I do not want to put something out there that can potentially be used to identify me if one of these people I know happens to find it. I don't get it it's like I am held to much higher standard than the people I deal with and I don't get why.