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Originally Posted by joshuas-mommy
I have been sexually abused by my father and another 40 year old man. I began noticing how much I disliked sex with my first long term relationship. I thought my boyfriend was urinating in my vagina, but then I realized that I pee myself. I don't like having sex and this has been interfering with my relationships. I don't like people kissing me or licking me on my body. I just want the sex to end as soon as possible. Has anyone else ever experienced this?
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I can relate a lot to this. Although I've gotten a lot better to where I really love and enjoy sex now. Sometimes though I just really don't like it. But it's gotten better. It's helped that I have a partner who listens to me when I say "no" or "stop". Even though I don't usually say "no" when I want to. It helps knowing he will listen if and when I decide to say "no". It takes a lot of communication. There are things that still bother me but I'm working on them. You are not alone. It also seemed to change for me when I met the right person. Also lots of therapy. Without therapy idk where I would be.