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Old Sep 02, 2016, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted by leomama View Post
I propose a different idea: sounds like your dependency needs never got met. What if you allow your therapist to take care of you so you can heal?
I really don't think a T wants to get that involved, or blur those lines between T and client. A T is a paid service. You pay them to listen to you and maybe care on a shallow level, but not to be your friend or buddy. Like your doctor, dentist, car mechanic, etc. But first you would have to find a T that you could trust and you felt like had your best interest at heart. If you think your T is more than what I've described you are setting yourself up for rejection and heart break, JMHO.


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