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Old Sep 02, 2016, 08:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Trace14 View Post
I really don't think a T wants to get that involved, or blur those lines between T and client. A T is a paid service. You pay them to listen to you and maybe care on a shallow level, but not to be your friend or buddy. Like your doctor, dentist, car mechanic, etc. But first you would have to find a T that you could trust and you felt like had your best interest at heart. If you think your T is more than what I've described you are setting yourself up for rejection and heart break, JMHO.
I encourage you to look at psychodynamic therapy.
It sounds like you need reparenting.
Remember, c-ptsd and bpd have a lot in common.
I encourage you to read up on that.
If what I am saying makes no sense to you then I will drop it.