If somebody told you what you told us - "I restrict all week, but I do eat well when my husband is home on Fridays and the weekends" - what would you think? Would you think that is a healthy way to eat? Would you not think it would be better for them to eat properly during the week, too?

Why do you think what they are saying in therapy is all nonsense?

I do know perfectly well what you mean though, so please don't think I'm trying to be nasty to you or anything. But major denial often exists in a lot of eating disorders and has a horrible tendency not to lift until a person is either facing death or too dead to realize anything. You must realize something is at least slightly amiss though to post in an ED forum . Oh yeah I just read your first line of your post again and realized what you said.

You said, 'Can someone please help me and reply'. I'm not sure what reply you want. Do you want us all to say, 'Your eating is fine, no worries' or 'Your eating isn't fine, you should talk to your therapist more, you will make yourself seriously ill probably if you carry on like this'? Because either way your denial will continue. I suppose the hardest part is facing up to the denial, which I don't think is very easy to do until something bad happens. Somebody I know on another ED forum (recovery) collapsed last year from heart troubles due to her very low weight and was in the ICU for a while, and that gave her the inspiration to start increasing her weight because she was forced to realize she was going to die if she didn't do something about it. So yeah... sorry about the ramble