It sounds to me like a lack of understanding on the T's part. He throws out some T buzz words to make himself feel like he has led you to the beginning of your problems. While he is patting himself on the back, he leaves you in a state of confusion. The T did not explain or walk you through what was happening. He let you walk out without having closed the session. Without giving you what is needed. No compassion from this T.

Best to leave now and try to find another T but I know how hard it is to find anyone who is both intelligent AND compassionate. This T is not good enough for you.