I don't think the woman has any useful message that is relevant to me. The first one tries to use my dogs ("if someone did that to the dog would you be upset or think it wrong or protect them" sort of crap - but to me that is just stupid - they are dogs - so it is very different.) or sometimes she says "would you say that to your friends" - and my response is I probably would not say it but I would think it.
Now I just don't let her talk so if she has any message she has to keep it to herself.