He emailed me back a whole 3 sentences, explaining that the clinical term is actually premature sexual hatching, which is used exclusively in sex abuse cases. He then said he regretted the implication of minimization and that such abuse puts the individual at risk of traumatization and ptsd. That was all he wrote. I still feel mad. I need to be careful because I have historically abandoned relationships when something makes me uncomfortable. I am not sure if I am using this situation as a reason to give up on him. I wish I felt some kind of nurturing from him but I don't. Even his response felt cold, clinical, although technically correct.
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