See the thing is, we all have our own inner knowledge, and I know for me, this Q&A was correct. If it weren't then I wouldn't have reacted to angrily to it. The truth will set you free. I know from all previous T experience that it was in talking/working it through that true inner healing came. I know this pain inside wants to be faced and healed, I know a hug would be a momentary relief, I know this, unyet I don't want to know it. When I hand my money over to T, she always stands right in front of me, always trying to make eye contact with me as I give it to her, unyet I turn sideways away from her. I know she's trying to cross the emotional bridge to meet me, but I'm still edging sideways toward her. I know a hug wouldn't be the cure, its the journey that I take to finally turn and face her head on that will bring the final resolution, and a hug would just then be the trimming of the gift. I KNOW THIS!