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Originally Posted by growlycat
To be activated means something natural was set in motion. There is nothing natural or OK with molestation and taking advantage of a younger child. Do you think he misunderstood the age difference between you and your abuser? Maybe he has it in his head that two kids played Doctor. I find his need to normalize this disturbing too. So sorry your t sounds out of touch.
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He knows my stepbrother was 15 and he knows he was put into a juvenile detention center after my best friend was molested by him. He also know he was jailed for sexual assault with a weapon in his 20's. He understood that my stepbrother was a total scumbag. He understood that I was so scared of him that when he escaped the juvenile detention center and ran away back to our home, that I hid him in our crawl space for days, bringing him food and blankets to protect him. Not sure why I did that but it carried over to years later when at 16 I protected my alcoholic abusive 28 year old boyfriend at the police station after he pounded my face to a bloody pulp in public, telling the officers that we had never slept together, when we had, because I didn't want him to get in worse trouble and go to jail. The entire dynamic with my stepbrother had very significant implications for future relationships and that's why I can't believe he is so disinterested in the topic, and minimized the situation.