I feel like I could tell her that I don't feel very connected but wonder if that sort of thing would hurt her feelings or be considered mean to say? You raise an interesting point that maybe she disconnected from me.... I really hope that she is open to talking about this and hope that we can salvage the relationship.

I feel like if she shared an anecdote or disclosed something that she had in common with me that it would do wonders for our connection. Or if she ever followed up on anything that I say, that would surely help. Or if she ever gave me a compliment or said something nice......I've told her all of this but nothing changes......