HiAs many of you already know, the web is full of relationship advice. I visit a few at times. Yet I'm always wondering, as if I'm talking to them "who made you the expert"? They often conflict one another, with many of them advocating "the rules." Then there's the sales pitch to buy their books or programs supposedly to guarantee results in your relationship.
Unfortunately some do and handle their love life strictly by what these people say.
For instance, some say you shouldn't call a man, some say it's okay. And it goes on and on.
So which advice should you go by? Me? I go by and will go by what I think is good for me. Now that doesn't mean it's necessarily the best, but it's definitely the best for ME.
There's a woman I met online a few years ago from MarsVenus site. We exchanged numbers, we lost touch, now we're back together. And though she too has had problems in her relationships, we email each other daily. The advice she gives me shows she has a gift. She has such knowledge and understanding of human nature it's mind boggling! For instance, this man I've shared here. I'm not saying things of pinky perfect, yet from "talking" with her I found out that a lot of it is my own attitude, and the way I'm looking at things. She has helped me to look inside of him, to see what he's trying to do in spite of his weaknesses. She has helped me to understand him vs his mother and their relationship. She has helped calm me down! Because I was about to give up on him, although he still has enduring qualities in spite of everything. Nooo, she never, not once, TOLD me to hang in there. But her insight and patience (and patience especially is very needed dealing with me, I admit), helped me not to give up.