Yes and I already did that.
At any rate.
Today I am tired, trying to put one foot in front of the other, be more careful. It's hard. I'm tired of constantly having to guard myself on line, on the phone, with people. It's exhausting. People talk when I talk. The only truly safe place is with my therapist .
There's only one person in my family with narcissistic traits and they are the healthiest one. The person with borderline traits is far scarier, then there's another one with sociopathic traits. I'll take the narcissistic one any day over the other two.