Ok, I asked him about that. Here is an interesting twist: he is sure they would not approve of me and that would make "unbearable atmosphere in their home".
Apparently, I am not something they had in mind for their son. They actually do want him to have children one day, he doesn't but he won't tell them that (again "atmosphere"). So, dating a woman who is obviously too old to have more children and does not really want to anymore, is out of the question.
So, I have a career, my own home, people respect me, not that it matters but I think I even look good, but what matters is that I am not fertile anymore? What kind of world is this?
Have you ever realized that you spent 10+ years fighting for relationship that never had a chance? I really feel like a world biggest loser.
And you know what is funny? I am terribly shy and introvert so chances of meeting someone new ever are next to zero. i will be alone for the rest of my life.