My two cents:

If you are using Jessica and she is using you, so be it. We all use each other for all kids of things such as SUPPORT AND LOVE.

I use everybody in this forum to recharge my battery every time I come in. I use my children every day to get energy and go on with my life. I use everybody in my life!! Using is not the same than manipulating, or abusing. So there!!!!!

GO ON AND USE JESSICA TO FILL YOUR LIFE WITH WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD, AND ALLOW HER TO USE YOU FOR HER NEEDS AS WELL, that is call reciprocity and is part of every honest relationship in this world.

period.