I hate to say this, but when I read "he is sure they would not approve of me and that would make "unbearable atmosphere in their home"", the first thought in my head is that he is hiding something big, and really lying. What an effin' douche.

Not that I am promoting your doing this, but if it were me...I would go knocking on that door for a surprise visit...just for grins.

Sorry you are going thru this, but glad you found out now instead of later.

uh-uh, please stop with the "I will be alone forever for the rest of my life"...you would have been alone forever if you had stayed with this guy, now the door of possibilities is open again.